Meet our dedicated office team. We are here to support our clients every step of the way!
Josh ObeiterExecutive Director & Owner
Prior to owning Seniors Helping Seniors of Greater Boston, Josh worked in client-facing roles in a wide range of industries, including higher education, pharmaceuticals, and market research. But seemingly his entire life has been leading up to owning this franchise. Josh’s close knit relationship with his grandparents and a volunteer project evolved into a deep-seated passion for connecting and providing companionship to the senior population.
For the past 15 years, Josh has been intimately involved with volunteering with seniors, primarily providing intergenerational programming at local nursing homes and assisted living communities; he is well-versed in the challenges that seniors and their families face when it comes to providing care. Josh is also active in several other Boston organizations, including the West Suburban Area Alzheimer's Partnership, Multicultural Coalition on Aging, Boston Bridge, the Newton Interagency Council, the Aging Life Care Association and several local senior centers and councils on aging; he is also connected to Springwell, Ethos, and Jewish Family & Children's Services.
Josh is a Certified Dementia Practitioner and leads a training on the Habilitation Approach to Dementia care for his staff.
“I truly believe that Seniors Helping Seniors senior care provides a unique opportunity for seniors to support one another as they age,” said Josh. “With senior caregivers at the helm, those that receive their service, benefit from the compassion, understanding and empathy that come with the senior caregiver’s life experiences. It elevates the role of a caregiver to a true companion – one that can be mutually beneficial for both the caregiver and receiver of the care.”
Kelly HoagAssociate Executive Director
Kelly has worked in human services and health care for over 15 years. She studied clinical counseling and human services with a focus on expressive therapies at Lesley University in Cambridge, MA. Prior to joining the Seniors Helping Seniors® of Greater Boston team, Kelly worked with Head Start experts to implement a national mentorship program designed to empower new Head Start Directors to become leaders in the field of child development and school readiness for low income children and families. In addition to her work in early childhood development, Kelly also has a passion for working with seniors and has provided clinical care and mental health support on both a professional and personal level to older adults. Through prior work as a neurofeedback clinician, Kelly has studied brain activity and development with a specific interest in cognitive functioning across the lifespan. She has also submitted and presented research on the importance of self-identity in older adults.
Kelly uses a strengths-based approach to working with individuals and believes that people are at their best when they feel valued and understood. She applies this approach to her work with both caregivers and clients at Seniors Helping Seniors® in order to foster mutually beneficial and meaningful relationships.
Kelly is a Certified Dementia Practitioner.
Doug PeckDirector of Community Partnerships
Doug owned the Seniors Helping Seniors franchise in the Metrowest area since 2011. Prior to joining Seniors Helping Seniors Metrowest, Doug had a 30 year career as a senior manager in Human Resources. He saw a need for this service first hand as he was the primary caregiver for his mother for over four years after his father passed. It also became evident that there were many seniors like himself who were not ready to slow down or retire but meaningful jobs for seniors are hard to come by. Being able to provide jobs that allow seniors to give back and make a difference has been a driving force for him. He always took a very hands-on approach to the business and was an active caregiver himself for many of his clients.
A 40 year resident in the Southborough community, Doug has a strong dedication to the surrounding communities and to seniors. He is Certified Senior Advisor and a Certified Dementia Practitioner. He currently sits on the board for BayPath Elder Services, the Southborough Council on Aging and the Marlborough Chamber of Commerce. Additionally, he has been active in the Metrowest Alzheimer’s Partnership, the Elder Community Collaborative serving the Marlborough and Hudson areas and the Friends of the Marlborough Seniors.
Additionally, he has given many presentation on caregiving and aging at home to Rotary Clubs, Libraries and area churches.
Besides his new role in the Boston/Metrowest franchise, Doug has started a nonprofit called Still Here For a Reason. It will focus on helping seniors answer the question: How can I still feel useful as I age?
Lisa GraffeoManager of Client Services
Lisa Graffeo began her association with Seniors Helping Seniors as one of our caregivers. Coupled with personal experience helping her own parents, she understands the importance of seniors being able to stay in a home environment for as long as possible while confronted with health issues that prevent them from doing everything they could do when they were younger.
“Having raised a large family, my parents were fortunate to have a support system in place, but for many seniors, this is not always the case. Through my experience as a caregiver, I know how valuable Seniors Helping Seniors is in filling the gaps when family is not available or able to help as much as they would like.”
Lisa has earned a Certificate of Completion from the Alzheimer Association’s “Caring for People with Alzheimer’s Disease” Habilitation curriculum. In addition to her caregiving experience, she has been working with seniors in a recreational capacity for more than 18 years as a ballroom dance hostess at Moseley’s on the Charles in Dedham, where she mingles and dances with the many seniors in attendance.
Before coming to Seniors Helping Seniors, Lisa spent 9-1/2 years at the nonprofit Asperger/Autism Network in Watertown, where she was the program manager. Her background also includes 12 years as a communications specialist and writer/editor in public affairs and corporate relations for the U.S. Postal Service in Boston, as well as experience working in direct sales and small-business marketing.
Lisa is a Certified Dementia Practitioner
Midge LightbodyClient Care Coordinator
Before coming to Seniors Helping Seniors, Midge worked in client facing roles for close to 20 years in the corporate world. "I decided it was time to have a job that felt like I was making made a difference in the world - and that is how I landed at Seniors Helping Seniors!"
Midge has personal experience with both parents and a grandmother who had Alzheimer's Disease, and understands the many and varied needs required to keep a family member happy and safe.
"Having worked with my parents through the various stages of dementia, I understand how important it was for my parents to have a good relationship with their caregivers - and complete transparency from the organizations we worked with to get my parents the help they needed."
Rachel PolcaroClient Care Coordinator
Rachel joined the Seniors Helping Seniors team after graduating from the University of Massachusetts, where she studied Community Development and Community Health. Throughout her college years, Rachel developed a wide range of experience working directly with seniors, including many with dementia. Her personal experience with family members diagnosed with Alzheimer’s & dementia, paired with her passion for public health, inspired her to work for an organization that specializes in the well-being of the elderly community, as she understands the urgent needs for such a rapidly growing population.
“In my work experience, I assisted clients with daily living needs that their family members were desperate to provide for their loved ones, but struggled to balance with their own careers and commitments. Nearly every day, I was showered with gratitude from family members. The rewarding nature of this work made it clear to me that my educational and career goals would be to enhance the quality of life for populations whose needs are often neglected. There is such a vast need for services in this population! That is why I joined the Seniors Helping Seniors team. Their mission to cultivate emotional connections, and assistance between active and less active seniors is an innovative and amazing way to simultaneously lift some of the burden from families and establish meaningful relationships with the seniors themselves.”
Sheila Tamkin SimonsClinical Care Consultant
Sheila is a clinical social worker and certified dementia practitioner who has worked in the health care field for over 20 years. Trained in hospital social work, she has also worked in mental health settings and managed her own psychotherapy practice. Sheila spent the majority of her career as a unit social worker in long term care settings, where she supported elders and their families as they adjusted to the challenges of aging and nursing home placement. Sheila is a Certified Dementia Practitioner and is a certified Alzheimer’s Association Dementia Trainer and Dementia Support Group Leader. She is the 2012 recipient of The Harriet Bartlett Excellence in Supervision Award from the Simmons Graduate School of Social Work Alumni Association for her work with MSW interns. Sheila is a Red Cross Disaster Mental Health Volunteer. She is a native of Boston.
Jeanne StoweAdministrative Coordinator
Jeanne worked in academia for a number of years before joining Seniors Helping Seniors. Having been a caregiver herself, Jeanne is mindful of the work caregivers do in order to support our seniors. "After years of working with students, I felt it was time to switch gears and work in an industry that values the older members of society and our unsung heroes, the caregivers. Seniors Helping Seniors gives me the opportunity to work part time and still contribute in a meaningful way."
Jeanne has a BA in history and an MS in administrative studies. She lives in the Boston area near her two adult children and her large extended family. Jeanne's hobbies include cooking, traveling and growing bonsai.
Jennifer SilversteinClient Care Coordinator
As our Weekend Client Care Coordinator, Jennifer joins Seniors Helping Seniors with a background in hospitality, administration and customer service. “I wanted a part time job that means more than the average job and Seniors Helping Seniors gives me the opportunity to help people.” In her spare time, Jennifer volunteers at The Women’s Lunch Place, a women’s shelter in Boston.
Jennifer cared for her elderly grandmother later in her life and helped assist a stroke survivor with aphasia. It is through these experiences that she understands the importance of helping seniors remain active, independent and engaged throughout their lives.
“Some people do not have the luxury of family to help care for them as they age. It goes beyond running errands and helping with tasks around the house, though this is certainly necessary; I feel it important to interact with someone with kindness and compassion and foster a relationship that instills a sense of dignity in someone’s life.”